Pulse August 2018 | Page 67

“Focus on changing your relationship with your mind, body, emotions and life. Do it not because of anxiety, but because there is something more important to you than anxiety and fear.” — JoHN P. forsytH, Phd. F & E: Our book is evidence-based, simple, shorter than most, practical and still filled with some profound wisdom. It flows from a perspective known as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Although ACT is a psychological therapy, it really is a way of life. It offers an approach to living well even when life is unkind. It teaches, supported by science, that we do not need to change what we think and feel to be genuinely happy and to thrive in life. What we need to do is to change our relationship with what we think and feel. P: If you could give a reader one tip for using your book, what would it be? F & E: Do the exercises and trust your experience over time, but don’t do them as another clever way to fight a war with anxiety. That doesn’t work. Focus on changing your relationship with your mind, body, emotions and life. Do it not because of anxiety, but because there is something more important to you than anxiety and fear. This is about your life and you living it. n